“Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great."
- Mark Twain
Have you ever had any doubts about life? Where are you heading? Did you make the right choice? What would life be like if you had chose the path opposite to the one you did take? The ‘what ifs’ are an endless sea that will lead you to no shore. Even worse, the what ifs force you to doubt yourself and your abilities. You’ll wonder where you went wrong and how you could have fixed it.
Perhaps fixing the problem isn’t the answer. Maybe there never really was a problem, but you’re the only one who knows. Never doubt yourself or your decisions. Doubting things will never end well, so avoiding it would be best. If you feel like you’re doubting yourself, I recommend 10 Ways To Stop Doubting Yourself. You’ll find tips on how to stop the issue when it comes to hand. The best thing to do is to think “I chose what I did for a reason,” and keep doubt far from your mind.
Self-doubt is inevitable; everyone will come in contact with it eventually, whether they want to or not. You just have to learn how and when to deal with it. I’ve been going through a lot of self-doubt these last few days. Finals are coming up sooner than I anticipated and I’m nervous that I’m going to fail my classes: typical freshman worry. This worry has caused me to think about the 'what ifs'. What if I had chosen not to go to college? Where would I be? What if I fail out of college? I’ve been trying my hardest to push all of those thoughts to the back of my mind and focus on the now. I can stop myself from failing, but I need to keep the self-doubt at bay until then.
Now is the time when I need to figure out how to keep focused; maybe make a plan/schedule marking the appropriate study times. There’s also the issue of studying, as I am a procrastinator, which puts a tremendous amount of stress on a person. For once, I have no resources on how to help with this issue. To all of the students who read this blog, what are some ways that you cope with finals? And do you know of any resources on campus that could help me out?
Good luck to everyone!